In one of my recent visit to a marriage function i seen that mostly people taken seat in their own vehicles and did not walked with 'Groom' till temple. Even before departure of Groom from home almost everyone is busy in himself surfing with their mobiles. Marriage party are not so much enjoying event now and most of the peoples just participate to complete formality. The modern busy life is just not have a impact on marriage events but completely dented our social culture. In death cases also people either reach directly to crimination ground or don't walk with body just move few meters and then take their vehicles and during process of crimination many are in hurry to move and don't stay their till completion of activity which is very bad. 

What steps should be taken to stop decreasing humanity / moral values in today modern life. How we should increase social co-operation and move forward to give help to others in hour of need as everyone has to pass through good and bad times and social programs are essential part of every human beings.

We must realize this decreasing mutual co-operation inside social structure otherwise in future if social co-operation will end it will be a very big factor in end of cultured society.

I invite all readers to please post your suggestion to increase social and moral values, harmony inside the society.

SUICIDE

Suicide is a social problem increasing everyday in our society because of busy and fast life. Peoples don’t get enough time to know the problems of each other or in their surroundings. Each person is busy in completing his/her responsibilities of day to day life. Students commit suicide because of failure in exam and sometimes due to breakup with their so called girl friends.

A working person commits suicide when he/she fails to perform in their service or business. Financial failures are also a very important factor for suicide problem. In India our farmers also commit suicide because of loans, monsoon problem, crop diseases etc.

The biggest havoc happens when whole family takes this blunt step to save them from social insult because they are not able to meet their minimum living requirement and here we need to search the solution against theory of “Only best fittest will survive”.

Crime against women’s in our society forces them for suicide when our society, administration, government and justice system delays the help to them and many times fails to punish the guilty. Victim takes this step only when he faces social boycott from family, friends and relatives.

To stop the problem of suicide interrelations between every human beings must be made very strong so that whenever anybody feels any wrong kind of pressure he/she may immediately discuss it with the other people in their surroundings. We must make sure that if anyone in our network is in problem, help must reach them on urgent basis in form of physical, mental, social and financial levels so that the problem of suicide can be stopped. Government should also start counseling for this problem by providing help through internet, toll free telephone lines, counseling centre’s etc.  Our NGO’s must come forwards and every individual must be attentive towards their surroundings to remove and stop these types of accidents.

Civilized Society

Yesterday evening I travelled from ShakurBasti Railway Station to Faridabad in Local EMU (shuttle) train and the compartment is not only crowded but really over-overcrowded and even it is very tough to stand properly. A family is there in that train compartment with a 2-3 month old baby and around 4 years old boy and it is worth to mention that they are not only seating properly but other peoples are concerned taking care that they do not push the small baby & boy and their mother for space. This incident give me a feeling that we are living in a civilized society which respect the dignity of women and give preferences to small childrens.

Finally, FIR registered against khap members - Chandigarh - City - The Times of India

Yes it is a good that FIR has been registered but after few days when media forget the matter and administration put it in cool bag what will happen?

The complainant and his family/relatives will be insecure because in some previous cases the crowd attacks and kills the person or his relatives even in presence of security provided to him.

I am of view that in this case keeping in view the future of child the husband wife should not be separated.



Also if khap panchayat?s wants to stop these issues in future it must make some policy/system.

Finally, FIR registered against khap members - Chandigarh - City - The Times of India